I know i am not beautiful enough to be the focus. I just wanna draw your attention to my cute and handsome babe. xD
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October 03, 2012
11.19PM
Dating
I remember one of my friends exclaimed when she saw my sis following me while so called "dating". And everyone are pointing fingers on me causing myself to believe i really did wrong at that time. Until last few months when i first told my babe about this issue, his first reaction made me shocked: "What can't your sis follow us?"
According to him, as long as he is with me, that's dating. It doesn't matter with who i am bringing, even though there is a huge group of friends, he doesn't mind, as long as i am with him. This made me rethink my perception. Could it be possible that the matter is just some people couldn't accept it, or i should say it's probable that most people could not accept this, but there are still some who are more realistic and considerate.
I wouldn't say that friend of mine is wrong or what 'cause that is her perception and thinking. She might have the fortune in her life to enjoy her little world with only her beloved and ignore others. And maybe this is the case for most of my friends who are pointing fingers on me too.
But sadly such luxurious life is not for me. Love is not about two-person matter, but it's about two-families matter. And i am so glad to have found someone who understands this and does not always stress on two-persons private moment. I mean of course private moment is important, but it isn't necessary to happen only in shopping malls. For us, two persons spending a day reading books at home can also be a sweet private moment. So we don't see there is any problems of bringing family members for outing as we value every moment we spend together.
"As long as you're at my side."
You have a great life, and i have a simple life to work hard for my beloved family, now and future.
=)
And another thing is, i don't see any problem with "dating at home". Some people consider dating to only happen in outing, while this is not what i think. And they end up spending a lot and complaining they are getting fat because they have eaten a lot, or they do not have time for studies or assignments. All these are bullshit for me. Having bf/gf isn't something that should affect your daily life. If people need to "spend time for dating", that's really pity and one day they will end up being tired of this life. And dating can be cost-less, as long as humans kick off their foolish thinking of "dating=outing".
Well, i date at home. =)
According to him, as long as he is with me, that's dating. It doesn't matter with who i am bringing, even though there is a huge group of friends, he doesn't mind, as long as i am with him. This made me rethink my perception. Could it be possible that the matter is just some people couldn't accept it, or i should say it's probable that most people could not accept this, but there are still some who are more realistic and considerate.
I wouldn't say that friend of mine is wrong or what 'cause that is her perception and thinking. She might have the fortune in her life to enjoy her little world with only her beloved and ignore others. And maybe this is the case for most of my friends who are pointing fingers on me too.
But sadly such luxurious life is not for me. Love is not about two-person matter, but it's about two-families matter. And i am so glad to have found someone who understands this and does not always stress on two-persons private moment. I mean of course private moment is important, but it isn't necessary to happen only in shopping malls. For us, two persons spending a day reading books at home can also be a sweet private moment. So we don't see there is any problems of bringing family members for outing as we value every moment we spend together.
"As long as you're at my side."
You have a great life, and i have a simple life to work hard for my beloved family, now and future.
=)
And another thing is, i don't see any problem with "dating at home". Some people consider dating to only happen in outing, while this is not what i think. And they end up spending a lot and complaining they are getting fat because they have eaten a lot, or they do not have time for studies or assignments. All these are bullshit for me. Having bf/gf isn't something that should affect your daily life. If people need to "spend time for dating", that's really pity and one day they will end up being tired of this life. And dating can be cost-less, as long as humans kick off their foolish thinking of "dating=outing".
Well, i date at home. =)
October 03, 2012
11.03PM
