THAT KIND OF PERSON

I was having a good chat with my sis this afternoon in J Coffee, QB. We were talking about something that i never imagine she would talk about it - her love life. The story is, a guy in her class is now going after a girl who used to be her good friend when she first went into college. She is her classmate and group member. The issue is another friend of hers discovered that that girl is quite a hypocrite in the sense that she is a person with different characteristics in front of guys and in front of girls, separately. She has attitude and 'activities' which the guys do not know, including that specific guy who is going after her.

I didn't get very shocked listening to her words. That girl appears in this way to me at the very first time i saw her. The only thing that i didn't expect is the attitude of 'acting'. This actually reminds me of many persons which i came across in these years. Sometimes i will feel really depressed. I naively thought this kind of person will only appear in drama, which in other words, 'created'. But there are just TOO MANY in real life! It is seriously scary! The problem is, that person (usually will be a girl) is acting, and you know it, but your dear friend (usually is a guy) just does not know, and the biggest and disappointing issue is HE IS SO FOND OF HER! Even some guys who actually knows the real attitude of that kind of girls, they will still go after her, and they will say "love is blind".

I really hate hypocrite because i feel it is a waste of time to interact with such people as you will never know their true face. It is even hateful than someone criticize me behind me. I mean, at lease the criticizer is showing his/her 'true' face to others. Keep on asking "what are there such person?" is not a really good way to get answers, because there is no answer. I just cannot understand why are there such person who wants to make her life so busy with different images in front of different people. She is making people to look down on her, because at the very first place she looks down on herself that she has to survive with a mask! Oops, it should be many masks!

Sometimes, it's not that we want to look down on people, but it's actually those people who makes us to look down on them!

December 12, 2010
10.05PM