I like the fact that the girl actually didnt get married with the guy. Because as we know it is really impossible. We see very less couples who got together since secondary school and can actually get married. Because this is so true :
"成長，最殘酷的部份就是，女孩子永遠比同年齡的男孩子成熟。"
This is so true. So that's why couples in secondary schools always argue and finally break up. As shown in the movie, it is very obvious that their thoughts are so different. The girl is much more mature and the guy doesn't get what she means. This is always the real fact.
Many people wonder why the bridegroom at the end is not the guy. But you know, sometimes marriage is not only about loving each other. The fact is that guy missed the girl, he doesn't know to appreciate that girl. And thing is like this - when the guy missed it, that's it. He can never get it back.
This is what makes the memory beautiful. I think most guys will experience it - they will always have a girl in their heart that they forever cannot get her. And even after he has his own family, he will still miss the girl.
I like the stain behind the white shirt. It means a lot. It is more than a memory. It is motivation, transformation and love. =DD
and these:
When i saw this, i nearly cried.
" 如果你真的很喜歡一個女孩的話，當新郎不是妳的話，
那麼你永遠無法祝福她。
結果：不，當你真的很喜歡一個女孩的話，
那麼無論新郎是誰，你都會真心祝福她。"
I feel so understandable to this particular sentence! When you finally 釋懷, you will really hope for the best for her (of course in my place, it's a he)!
And finally, i can totally understand the movie. A simply yet meaningful one. You should be going to cinema for this.
^^.
November 07, 2011
9.21PM
