She didn’t do anything wrong, so she doesn’t deserve this. I don’t know about others, but for me, she is not that bad at lease. I mean, and i understand, everyone will face the first experience in life. This is her first experience of lecturing advance diploma students, it’s quite normal that her performance didn’t meet our expectation. Her teaching method is not the best for us maybe, and she maybe didn’t consider the overall level of everyone. But is this her problem? I mean, is this all her problem? Sometimes i don’t want to say this but as advance diploma students, we must know how to be self-motivated – to study for ourselves. I mean, there is no way people providing everything for you and you just swallow everything and vomit out in the exam. Study and revision are own effort. TARC is already so good that materials are provided for us. So, my opinion is, we should work for ourselves and lecturers are there for us to clear our doubt, that’s all. Also, I received complaints about her aggressive attitude. Maybe this is her problem and it really irritates some people. I understand that different people have different attitude, like me, i don’t think people can bear with me as well. However, for me, if you are good to a person, that person will be good to you as well, though this is not the case for everytime.
For me, i will still consider her as a good lecturer ‘cause i saw her effort of guiding and teaching us, using the best way of her, preparing notes and study materials for us, and yet there is still people not appreciating. I start to worry and wonder, will i face the same situation as what she is facing now? ‘Cause i feel that my attitude and characteristics are quite the same as hers. Sometimes i do care too much for certain things, and i will also get very emotional for the things that i really care about. And from the way i talk and i react, i do receive complaints that sometimes i tend to look down on people. Though i never mean that, but people interpret in that way. So i totally can understand her feeling. I wish to talk to her and comfort her actually – empathy – i can feel what she is feeling.
Hmm, if one day i become a lecturer, i will most probably face the same situation as hers. Though i am trying to control, but it really needs time. I believe that she also needs time to rearrange her mood and thinking – not to care too much and not to be too aggressive and emotional. I think we should definitely give her a chance – because after all, she is good.
Poor her, it is really not her problem! Cheer up, miss! ^^ We will be by your side. ^^
August 9, 2010
6.47PM
