Many people said lecturer doesn't teach in effective way. Well, for me, she is really not so good but somehow we shouldn't depend much on lecturer, generally. Lecturers are just guiding us to acquire necessary knowledge, and the acquisition is merely based on our own effort - which this actually distinguishes humans through results.
So, i told my friend that lecturer doesn't affect me a lot and i actually meant this. But i was reluctant to explain because some people will think you are proud as if you are the best for getting good result. Explanation sometimes doesn't bring good effect. =)
Anyway, i really discovered that people growing up in different surrounding will result in different thinking and perceptions. Sometimes i will say i couldn't understand some people do this do that, and i regularly see my secondary schoolmates write something like this in facebook, now i know why - because of different thinking. We are brought up in that environment, so we couldn't accept some actions or thoughts of those who do not come from the same environment as us.
So, arguments and conflicts are just all about SURROUNDING - where we are brought up. =)
I won't force people accepting me, but i hope others won't force me to accept them as well,
if i really CANNOT DO SO.
October 8, 2010
2.48PM
