NOT BEING TOGETHER

I think most people will have the same feeling before, that when you hang out as a group, you will realize some people don't really look happy. Well, i admit that i do feel it, in the past, now and maybe in the future, among every group of friends. You know when you hang out as a group, happily, you keep on chitchatting until you forget yourself, and when you glance through you will realize some people tend to do their own stuff.

I dunno how others feel about this, but personally i feel this is rather annoying.

For example, we start a topic and share to everyone, but suddenly you realize two or three persons are talking to one another about other things, and when you try to find out, they will like "No, nothing. It's just a small matter."
OR
We start a topic, everyone is listening, but some never voice any opinion and just smile, but in fact they are very talkative and can talk freely with other friends.
OR
We start a topic, everyone is sharing opinions except one or two who are playing his/her phone or ipad.

Well, it's not that i force everyone to join, but doing own stuff when hanging out with others will give me a feeling that "foolish people talking foolishly, i might as well do something else" . So if it's me, i won't ask the same person out for the next time.

The worst is, these people are not really into your group, yet they will get mad when you hang out without them. And some of them will start to complain that you didn't invite them, as if you're the one who is wrong for not considering them as friends.

But i thought you are not happy with us?? So why do you care?

Silly.

October 09, 2011

2.05PM