TAKING CARE OF A "BABY"

It's true about what mom and primary school teachers taught us - we must take care of other's feelings when you  talk or do something. It's true that towards certain extent, we cannot do as we like 'cause we will hurt others.

However, this doesn't mean that in EVERY sentence and EVERY action i have to consider other persons. Some people are just too sensitive that they care about every joke you made and every single word coming out from your mouth. So you don't even realize that you've hurt them sometimes, in some ways that you don't know. And they will remember it forever, deep inside their heart, until one day they burst and blame you for something that you've said/done that you don't even know when.

Come on. Sometimes joke means joke. Joke is something we make now and forget now. Joke is something that shouldn't have existed in memory.

Then people will say: Beware of limit. Of course, there is a limit of making joke. But if your limit is too low, it's very hard to converse with you. I dunno, maybe i am blunt, so i cannot accept people saying a little joke will hurt them.

To whom it may concern, be strong in this world or you will be eliminated. Accept criticism and try to change yourself. Don't blame others for hurting you, instead thank them for giving you a chance to learn.

AND FINALLY


DON'T EXPECT US TO TREAT YOU AS BABIES, CAUSE WE ARE NOT YOUR MOM.

October 09, 2011
2.16PM