Actually i have two incidents regarding to this topic.
I've met a few friends in this week, and because there were just two of us every time, we got to chat a lot, and know each other a lot. Sometimes people do not think like what their appearances tell - now i really believe this. I remember another friend commented about other's characteristics and in reality, it is an exact opposite. Another friend that i've met yesterday told me that she holds back some words because of some reasons that she thought it's true but in reality it's not. So we opened up our minds and exchanged opinions. So this is the power of communication. I am glad that she is still someone that i can really pour out everything. =))))
And i realized that something was wrong among my friend circle. Well this actually happened long time ago, and i always knew it, it's just that i feel to write something about this now. So i think (i can't exactly be sure because i have no evidences, but i think it goes this way), i guess, comments about me are flying all over my classmates. Well, people who know will understand what i actually mean here. And i also think some people, judging me based on opinions from a single side, already stamped me to be a certain kind of person. Anyway, i don't mind losing contact with people that don't even judge the quality of the so called "opinions" and don't even bother to make effort to seek my explanation. It's just that i feel ridiculous for people to believe entirely what others have told you about ANOTHER person. Are those commenting on me my father or my mother? How much do they know me, and how objective they are? Don't you even think about this?
Anyway, I am fine with that, just feeling funny for the foolishness. For those who at lease choose to talk to me (you know who you are), i wanna tell you that i appreciate a lot and i hope you get to know me more after the talk. And i will ignore those that choose to leave.
=))))).
Feb-16, 2012
12.49PM
