I think its quite essential to first address mine. I am a blunt, rational people. I am definitely not the one who is romantic. Spending money to book the whole cinema in order to propose appeared to be very thoughtless and foolish to me as i think the money spent can be just deposited in banks to earn interest - the most secure return. I know, i am super dull, i am scolded by my mom too for being too bored and not aware of the importance of "being romantic occasionally". Well, i wouldn't say i won't change, as for me, when a person is in love, he/she might probably become more romantic than he/she thought would be, right? So as i am single now, i wouldn't comment much about this.
But i am very certain that i am rather rational. Things are wrong when they are, regardless of who did those. So i am quite careless about the relationship effect, and i guess this makes me to have less friends. Well, it's okay because i am not so afraid of lonely. Of course that's really good to have someone share my thoughts with, but it's still not bothering me much. And being blunt, yes, rather. But i guess i've turned my way. In earlier days, i am blunt for the sake of blunt - thoughtless that type. Now, i am blunt for the sake of.... errr.... shooting people? LOL. I am evil, i know.
So i am this type of person and some people commented to me that i am over mature for my age. So my ideal type is also quite... (should i say) different from ordinary 22 years old girls. I care 0% of the look, seriously. Look isn't important at all for me, as someone will just appear to be handsome because of his attitude - this is truly happening on me. So are you thinking that i care about the attitude? Yeah, it comprises like 70%? Around that. How about the past? Well, seriously, only 20%. I actually cared about the past, but then i realized, if a person who had a terrible history now appears to be much better than other ordinary people, what's wrong? This means that he had set his mind to endure changes and he has successful! This gives him much higher value! So past isn't really something important for me already. How about the family background? Okay let's make history=15% and family background=15%, although people say love is between two persons, this is extremely wrong. I hope my relationship can be approved and accepted by every party concern, my family and his family. So, this is rather important.
So do you think i am very picky? Starting to? LOL i won't blame you, because i am. I just realized that no one ever possesses all the characteristics demanded. JUST NO ONE. There will definitely be something lacking, which makes me rather upset and *sigh*. I wouldn't say i have much experience, but those i have met, there must be something lacking. So i just realize - there won't be ideal type of husband appearing in our life. Even my mom is still complaining my dad!
So i start thinking, should i just prioritize? LOL. Then i would say i go for attitude the most. I would say, a mature guy who is caring, responsible and motivated, and loves me as me myself will be the person i want to meet the most. He can make mistakes in the past, because he will be more handsome when he learnt from mistakes. =)
Pray? LOL.
Feb-24, 2012
3.58PM
